"Change equals self-improvement. Push yourself to places you haven't been before." Pat Summitt
I had a twisted idea of love and relationships early on. Hence, for self-preservation, I vowed never to be vulnerable or be a victim of love. I had so much protected my heart from love for so long that I was now clueless about how to love and be loved.
From there, it has been disasters over disasters. I could not keep a relationship; I could not trust my partners or myself. I lost my confidence. I was always looking for the bomb in the relationship so much that I could never be in the NOW. Yes! I self-sabotaged my relationships to prove me right. How wrong was I? I was just afraid to show my true self by fear of not being accepted.
No wonder why my relationships suffered and so did I. I had to pick up myself multiple times after my countless failed relationships, but my pain and desire to be whole again birthed my blueprint to holistically heal from a breakup, find inner peace, and accept myself as I AM.
Yes! It hurts to have your heart broken but as a living proof there is light and growth at the end of the journey. I would love to share my blueprint, experience and heart with you, so we can get stronger together.
RISKS BY LEO F. BUSCAGLIA
To laugh is to risk appearing a fool, To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out to another is to risk involvement, To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas and dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return, To live is to risk dying, To hope is to risk despair, To try is to risk failure. But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, But he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live. Chained by his servitude he is a slave who has forfeited all freedom. Only a person who risks is free.