In 2018, I gave my heart again too soon to a man whom I thought was the one. Yes, I thought Miami was my soulmate until he shattered my heart yet again. I was devastated and in pain. I felt betrayed, ashamed, rejected, and sad. How did I allow myself to go there again? I wrestled with him to give us another chance but no luck. Our story had ended that I accept it or not.

In my sorrow, I took the time to pray and ask for assistance as I was at rock bottom and had no idea what was wrong with me. Was I worthy? Was I deserving of love? I have been there before and thought I was rejecting love and unable to trust because my father cheated on my mother.

I believed all men could not be trusted since their DNA is cheating…. Why? Because my father once told me after an argument with my high school sweetheart who cheated on me multiple times that and I quote “baby girl a man is always gonna cheat on you”. I felt betrayed that my own father would not even take a side with me. I could not trust anyone as they will eventually hurt me.

But 2018 was different because my wounds were deeper than I thought. Up to this moment, I was hiding behind the truth, failed to acknowledge and heal the root cause. You see my paternal family never accepted my mother, so as kids – – my brothers and I – – we were never loved by this side of the family. I unconsciously deducted that I was not worthy of love. Who would love me if my own blood would not? I felt unworthy and unlovable. The story was reinforced every time my parents failed to believe me or defend me.

Consequently, I have tried my whole life to be the person people wanted me to be so that I will be accepted at once. I just wanted to be loved. Inevitably, I thought GOD did not love me, so He was punishing me when I was struggling. When my relationships failed. When my heart was shattered. Yes, the pain went deeper than I thought. I was just dealing with the first layers, but I could no longer be a victim. It was time to go to the root and heal. So, did I. I poured my heart into God for healing and created my signature Unbreak Your Heart Method. It has been a long journey, but I am glad I allowed myself the gift of healing, forgiveness, and truth.

My breakup was a gift in disguise. I was able to heal my wounds. Reconnect with my true self. Forgive my parents, paternal family, myself, and God truly and deeply. I have decided to claim my power back and agree with God about who He says I am. So are you! I am anointed, redeemed, restored, loved, accepted, enough, worthy, and perfect.

That is why I have made it my mission to help women worldwide just like I unbreak their hearts and reconnect with their true selves. But most importantly feel worthy and enough once again.